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Archive for the ‘Work-Life Balance’ Category

Parenting Solutions for Working Moms: Answers & Insights with Expert Dr. Rene Hackney

Wednesday, June 23rd, 2010

Date: Tuesday, July 13, 2010
Time: 9:30 AM –  11:30 AM
Where: Busboys and Poets – Arlington, VA

If you’re in northern Virginia and beyond, you’ve likely heard of parenting expert, Dr. Rene Hackney, and may have even seen her speak and/or you or your children may have participated in one of her play groups, workshops or classes. This event is specifically designed for working moms to address challenges that come with working in or outside the home while raising a family.

Dr. Rene HackneyA leading parenting and child development specialist and the founder and creator of Parenting Playgroups – Where Parents Learn and Children Play and AskDr.Rene, Dr. Rene will present strategies for effective and empowered parenting and she’ll address your challenges during a question and answer session.

Learn how using positive discipline strategies can empower you as a parent and build a stronger family, ultimately having a positive impact on your work life as well!

Learn more about Dr. Rene, get details about the event and register today at http://events.theenterprisingmoms.com

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30 Hours of Weekly Leisure Time? Washington Post’s Brigid Schulte’s Controversial Time Study

Tuesday, June 1st, 2010

Where: Busboys and Poets – Arlington, VA
Date: Tue Jun 8 – Tue Jun 8
Time:
09:30 AM – 11:30 AM
Event description:

For many Enterprising Moms, and moms in general, it’s a constant struggle … finding enough time to meet the numerous demands of daily life, never mind the quest for a little professional fulfillment and personal joy along the way. Is there time for it all?

According to one study, there’s plenty! John Robinson, a time researcher who’s often referred to as the father of time, says that working moms have 30 hours of leisure time per week. So, where’s the disconnect?

Pulitzer Prize winning journalist and mother of two, Brigid Schulte, like many of us didn’t believe it. So, she did a study of her own time and shared her findings in the February 17th Sunday Washington Post Magazine article, “The Test of Time: A busy working mother tries to figure out where all her time is going.” The controversial article kicked up storm of discussion on the subject of moms and leisure time, how we define it, and how we spend it.

At this June 8th event, Brigid will share her experience in researching and reporting the piece and the conversations that ensued as the topic exploded in print, on the web and even lead to an appearance by Brigid on the Dr. Phil Show!

Opening with a talk by Brigid about her experience, the event will feature an interactive discussion and exploration of time, work, leisure and how we define and experience them all.

Do you have 30 hours of leisure time per week? Tell us about it below and join us on Tuesday, June 8th

About Brigid

b schulte sm 30 Hours of Weekly Leisure Time? Washington Post’s Brigid Schultes Controversial Time StudyBrigid Schulte is a reporter on the Washington Post’s Local Enterprise Team, a group of narrative writers that look for compelling and insightful stories that help explain how we live now. She came to the Post in 1999 to cover education, winning a top National Education Writers’ Association award for a series exploring the achievement gap. She has since written human interest, narrative and feature stories on everything from dying bats and the way the healthcare debate feels on the street to a lost jar of marbles and the plight of struggling Iraqi refugees in America for virtually all sections of the newspaper and Washington Post magazine.

She has won a number of journalism and writing awards, including the National Association of Black Journalist’s award for sports writing for a four-part series on a high school basketball team comprised almost entirely of immigrants or the sons of immigrants. She was also part of the team that won the 2008 Pulitzer Prize for covering the Virginia Tech massacre.

Schulte wrote about national politics and national affairs for Knight-Ridder Newspapers’ Washington Bureau before joining the Post. She also wrote about southern politics as the Washington correspondent for the State Newspaper in South Carolina and covered the environment and the Pacific Northwest for the Seattle Times and other western papers in the Washington Bureau of States News Service. She has worked at newspapers in South Carolina and Wyoming, written for national magazines like The Washington Monthly and trade publications like The Harvard Education Review and taught English in Japan for two   years. An Oregon native, she graduated with a degree in English from the University of Portland and later obtained a master’s degree from the Columbia Graduate School of Journalism in New York.

Door Prize

Special thanks to Jenna Caudillo of JA Creative, provider award winning marketing and creative services to businesses and nonprofit organizations, for the following door prize:

We Grew It–Let’s Eat It! 30 Hours of Weekly Leisure Time? Washington Post’s Brigid Schultes Controversial Time Study
DC twins Annie and Veda learn about the White House veggie garden and want to grow fruits and vegetables, too. But how, if you live in an apartment? Watch the twins and senior gardener Ida work and play their way through planting, tending, and harvesting in a neighborhood Community Garden. Then comes the fun of preparing and eating simple, tasty, homegrown food!

A picture book for young readers (ages 3-8 — Pre-K- Grade 4)
By Annie and Veda as told to Justine Kenin
Full-color photos by Becky Lettenberger
Designed by J.A. Creative
56 pages, soft cover 8.5” x 11”, with recipes and books for further reading

This is the third book they have collaborated on with Tenley Circle Press.

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Setting Goals and Intentions for 2010

Tuesday, December 22nd, 2009

What are your intentions for yourself, your family and your business as you head into the new year?

Too tied up in the frenzy of the holidays to give it much thought? No worries … Join us at the next Coffee and Connections where coaches Carolyn Semedo, of Apply Within, and Suzanne Caldwell, of Vital Coaching and Consulting, will help you get on track.

What: Setting Goals and Intentions for 2010
When: Tuesday, January 12 @ 9:30am
WhereBusboys and Poets – Arlington, VA

During this interactive event, you’ll:

  • Explore, clarify and get grounded in what’s most important to you, at your essence
  • Learn how to integrate those things and honor them in your everyday life
  • Understand the basis of those internal struggles, external conflicts and the ever-present “should” and “ought to” and learn what to do about them

Through coaching we’ll help you learn how to achieve a sense of alignment and integration so that you can set meaningful goals and intentions for your whole life from an empowered and grounded place.

Join us to learn how to get your new year off to the best start possible!

Shared by one business owner:

“I have found clients, friends and gotten information for services I need and hired those recommended service professionals. It is a good resource because being a part of the group offers a level of trust you wouldn’t find elsewhere. I have found such a supportive environment in which I have been able to get valuable feedback from a very talented group of women. It is an important group for me especially because it is valuable to have a resource of like-minded mamas.” — Jessica Christian, Photographer, Jessica Photo

Register today!

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Member Spotlight: Eryn Gurnee Cadoff

Sunday, September 20th, 2009

Learn more about this Enterprising Mom of two, who found a way to join her business interests with her passion … wine! Eryn is assisting with efforts to bring The Enterprising Moms to Fairfax County. If you live in the Fairfax County area, please come to our Meet & Greet. If you don’t live in the area, please share the news with those you know who do!

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Name:  Eryn Cadoff
Title:  Team Leader & Independent Wine Consultant
Business:  The Traveling Vineyard

Type of Business:  B2C and B2B
Industry:  Wine
Product/Service:  Free, fun & informative in-home wine tastings.  Online wine sales, wine of the month clubs.
Years in Business: 4.5 (business launch was January 2005)

Ideal Customers/Best Referrals:  Anyone who loves wine and is over 21!  But to be more specific – my best potential hosts are people who love wine and like to entertain, and my best B2B customers would be anyone who needs to give client gifts (realtors; those in charge of corporate gifting for their company).

Personally speaking…

Home life:  My home life is crazy – just like everyone else who is an Enterprising Mom!  My husband, David, and I have 2 daughters.  Violet (age 5) is starting kindergarten, and Alana (age 3) is in preschool.

Childcare situation:  I stay home with the kids, and work my business around our family schedule.  I’m excited to have a little more time on my hands this fall with my oldest in kindergarten!  David works long hours, and usually isn’t home before 7pm, but is a very supportive spouse, so we have made our schedule work around his work and mine.

Motivation for starting your business(es):  Wine!  I had been in a direct sales/party plan business prior to joining The Traveling Vineyard.  When I heard there was a company with that same business structure but for wine – I had to start right away.

Greatest benefit of running your own business:  Adding to the family income while doing something I absolutely love.  It just doesn’t get better than that!

Greatest success you had in the past month (personal or biz) and how you celebrated it:  I think the most exciting thing that has happened in my business recently is the fire that has been lit under some of my team members.  It’s really exciting to be working with people who are embracing their own opportunity with The Traveling Vineyard and wanting to grow their owns teams!

On your nightstand:  Bottle of water, a book about wine, and a mindless magazine (usually OK or Cosmo).

The one tool, resource, or toy you just can’t do without:  My laptop!

Last purchase for self:  I splurged recently and got a really fantastic red dress at a local boutique here in Gainesville.  The store owner makes everything herself!  I love supporting local business…especially when I’m getting something of higher quality than I could elsewhere.

Favorite way to unwind:  Glass of red wine, piece of dark chocolate, and something on HBO (current addiction is True Blood)

Best advise or tip you ever received (personal or biz):  It’s the simplest advice I’ve ever gotten, but still the best, as it can apply to your personal or professional life.  “Just Ask!”  It’s impossible to find new hosts, new team members, new business without ever asking for it – nobody can read your mind.  It’s impossible for anyone to know what you want if you never ask for it.  Sometimes the answer will be no, but you’ll never know if it’s a yes unless you ask.

Best thing about being an Enterprising Mom:  The best thing about being an Enterprising Mom is the same thing I love about direct sales/party plan businesses.  We’re all in business for ourselves, but by supporting each other, we don’t have to be in business by ourselves.  Most of us are solopreneurs, independent contractors, etc., and having a group that you can ask questions of, bounce ideas off of, etc., is great for all of us.

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Member Spotlight: Marilyn Nowalk, Intelligent by Design

Wednesday, September 9th, 2009

Learn more about Enterprising Mom Marilyn Nowalk and how she’s raising twin six-year-old boys while growing a company that helps other organizations succeed – no matter where they are in the process. Meet Marilyn at our upcoming event, Streamline Your Life: Tools and Strategies for Saving Time, Money and Resources.

IBD logo1 Member Spotlight: Marilyn Nowalk, Intelligent by Design

Name:  Marilyn Nowalk
Title: President
Business: Intelligent by Design, LLC

Type of Business:  (B2B, B2C, B2G): B2B, B2G

Product/Service:   “Special Projects,” Strategic Reengineering, Project Management, Application Development, Reporting and Analysis

Years in Business: November will be 4

Ideal Customers/Best Referrals:
CEO, COO, CIO, CFO, Directors of Finance, Sales, Ops, IT – basically anyone who has a project they’d like to get off the ground, but don’t have the time, man power, or skills in house to run it successfully from requirements to post-live hand-off.

Personally speaking…

Home life:
Married to Steve for 17 years.  Twin boys, Alex and Brendan, age 6 and in kindergarten.

Childcare situation:
We have and love our au pair, who has been with us about 10 months, and has just agreed to extend for a second year.
Previously we had a full-time nanny, and prior to that my husband was a SAHD for 13 months.

Motivation for starting your business:
In the Spring of 2005, I had a pair of two-yr olds at home and was working for a regional consulting company.  While I was not working the horrid hours I had before they were born, I was traveling a fair amount, and did not have the flexibility of schedule that I didn’t even realize I needed.  So in May I resigned, and took the summer off.  I knew I wanted to do something else, but wasn’t exactly sure what!  By November I had figured it out, and starting working on the logistics of setting up a new business.

Greatest benefit of running your own business:
For sure the flexibility.  I set my schedule so that when I am not traveling (which is about once/week), I am available for school drop-off, and either I pick up the boys from school myself or I am at home to greet them when they arrive with their au pair.  When I need to take them to the doctors (or last month’s ER visit!), I don’t have to explain myself to a boss, and I just make up the hours after the kids go to bed.  As a night person, I get very productive after 9 PM.

Greatest success you had in the past month (personal or biz) and how you celebrated it:
Ha!  I took a vacation and really relaxed.  While this sounds like a strange accomplishment, as a workaholic I have always had a hard time really separating for vacations, and this was even more exaggerated once I started my own business.  Earlier this year I made a concerted effort to train my staff to operate in my absence, and finally in August really allowed myself to let them fly on their own.

On your nightstand:
I always have five books or more in some level of engagement – but I am pretty heads down into “Leap of Faith, Memoirs of an Unexpected Life” by Queen Noor (of Jordan).

The one tool, resource, or toy you just can’t do without:
My Blackberry.

Last purchase for self:
Nothing recent, but I am starting to research new laptops – I need something much smaller and lighter.

Favorite way to unwind:
Either snuggling in bed with my kids, or when I need a break from them, with a good book in a comfortable chair.

Be advise or tip you ever received (personal or biz):
The only dumb question is the one you were afraid to ask.

Best thing about being an Enterprising Mom:
I love that beyond the professional satisfaction I get from a job well-done, I am teaching my children that the gender stereotypes of the past are passé. Women can run the business, men can (help) run the house, companies can be successful even if their staff is allowed to have a life.  We may not be the largest or the most powerful consulting firm in DC, but I believe our employees and clients are among the happiest and most fulfilled.

Connect and learn more:
Web Site: Intelligent by Design
LinkedIn: Marilyn Nowalk

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WEBINAR: Organizing Paper & Managing Time

Tuesday, May 26th, 2009

If you could ask one question to a top-notch professional organizer, the President of the DC chapter of the National Association of Professional Organizers, to be exact, what would it be?

Think about it, because you’ll actually have just that opportunity! Join us on Wednesday, June 3rd for The Enterprising Moms first Webinar  — Organizing Paper & Managing Time: Effective Strategies From a Pro.

Featuring Judy Parkins of Gently Organized, the webinar will offer tools and strategies to more effectively manage your paper and your time. Learn more about the event and register now!

This free webinar is brought to you by The Enterprising Moms and fellow Enterprising Mom, Maryann Kearns of Potomac Webinars, offering an end-to-end solutions for webinar planning and implementation.

Register now and share this invitation with a friend!

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Member Spotlight: Angela Hazuda Meyers

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

Our member spotlight now shines on Angela Hazuda Meyers, of Meyers Marketing Strategy and Standing Room Only Event Promotion. Angela facilitates our monthly Marketing and Communications Group Meetings and will be featured in the spotlight at our upcoming Coffee and Connections event on May 12th.

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Angela Hazuda Meyers
President/Owner
Meyers Marketing Strategy and Standing Room Only Event Promotion

Type of Business: B2B. Conduct B2B, B2C marketing programs

Industries: Marketing and Events

Product/Service: Marketing (Strategic, Executional, Interim & Retainer) and Event Promotion

Years in Business: 6 months

Ideal Customers/Best Referrals:

  • Small–midsized businesses, non-profits and associations who need help growing their organizations.
  • Small-mid-sized organizations who don’t have enough funds or work for a full-time marketing director, but realize they need the function filled, or firms who have recently lost their Marketing Director and need a stand-in until they re-hire the position.

Personally speaking …
I am so sad to say that right now I don’t have much to fill in here.  I do a little knitting in the winter, I like to plan the kids parties with theme events and lots of fun activities, and I walk in the early AM with a group of women in the neighborhood and thoroughly enjoy my “adult time,” but other than that this is an area I am working on!

Home life:
I have a hubby of 5 years Patrick.  We have a romantic story of meeting, falling deeply in love, he quit his job a month after we met so he could be stateside (after knowing each other for only 2 weeks) then moving in directly with me literally after the taxi dropped him off at my house and getting engaged a year later on top of the Eiffel Tower – but sadly not much romance post kiddos! I have 3 wonderful children:  Grant (3.5 years old), Rhett (20 months old) and Charlotte (8 months old).  They are fun and keep me hopping, most days it’s wonderful and other days it’s a handful!

Childcare situation:
I have full-time, in-home care.  I attempted to go it alone without care, but with 3 under 3 at the time and now with them only 6 months older now, there was not enough quite time in the day to get any work done and not a quiet moment to talk to a client.

Motivation for starting your businesses:
A passion for marketing and helping other small businesses grow AND a desire to be more connected and present in my children’s days.

Greatest benefit of running your own businesses:
Flexibility.  I try to fit in a few events with the kids during the day each month, we walk to preschool and back and I have lunch with them at least a few times a week.

Greatest success you had in the past month (personal or biz) and how you celebrated it:
I got 2 new clients for my business.  I called my hubby.

On your nightstand:
A notebook to jot down late-night thoughts and to-dos and a few children’s book, Oh and 1,000 Places to See Before You Die – But it hasn’t even been cracked open (I got it for Christmas) and I certainly haven’t scheduled a trip yet!

The one tool, resource, or toy you just can’t do without:
Sneakers.  I love getting out a taking a walk or jog to energize or blow off steam.  I try to walk most days with the kids or at least get outside for a little fun.

Last purchase for self:
Blackberry

Favorite way to unwind:
Wine a little…

Best advise or tip you ever received (personal or biz):
My mom said – You need to start your own business.  After positions in various companies I was frustrated with an organization’s lack of vision, inefficiencies and inability to execute.  Many companies get in their own way on a regular basis and I want to help them advance.

Best thing about being an Enterprising Mom:
There are more than one BEST to this one…I love working for myself because I get to be involved with so many exciting businesses and work for a number of different clients, which is very fulfilling.  It’s an opportunity you don’t have when working for one company.  I also love showing my children how mommy works, getting them exposed to alternative work environments and in the future I look forward to them understanding that they can do whatever they want to do as they grow up.

Connect and learn more:
MeyersMarketingStrategy
Standing Room Only Event Promotion

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Productivity Makeover for Entrepreneurial Mom – Part 1

Monday, March 16th, 2009

woman under desk 150x150 Productivity Makeover for Entrepreneurial Mom   Part 1As mentioned in an earlier post, I was gearing up for my first session with productivity expert Terry Monaghan of Organizing For Your Life. Terry works with individuals and executives at organizations to help them them develop structures and processes that enable them get more done in less time.

During our first session, Terry asked lots of questions about what was working and what wasn’t. We discussed what support systems I currently have in place and how I would like things to work. During the course of our discussion, we uncovered some of my sticking points and what made them sticky for me.

A few of the key points that really shifted my thinking …

  • I’m a highly visual person. If a thing is not in my line of vision, it’s likely to fall off my radar. What I learned is that my visual cues (polite term for ‘overflowing step file holders’) are overstimulating and overwhelming; and that there are more visually appealing and less stress-inducing ways of keeping track of active projects. Music to my ears!
  • Many of the systems I have in place are well thought can work well for me, once I work out all of the kinks. For instance, I have numerous email accounts to help me keep track of different types of email (bills, personal, shopping, business, admin, networking, etc.). While some people use filters, I chose different accounts. My system for separating email works, but the way I process my email doesn’t. I’m working with Terry to implement a system to process my in-box and keep it empty.
  • Most of the projects I’m working on require large chunks of time, something I rarely have. Terry helped me to shift how I think about my projects and my progress on them. By breaking projects up into smaller tasks, scheduling blocks of time for tasks (even as little as 15 minutes) and using a timer to keep me on task, I can make steady progress and achieve a sense of accomplishment while working towards completion.
  • I don’t have to start from scratch. Terry explores how I work, what works well, and then works with me to put structures in place that support the way I work. So, it’s not about implementing a canned system, but building a system that works with my work flow.

These may seem like obvious things, and on some level they are. But discussed with a productivity expert in the larger context of prioritizing what’s most important to me and maximizing my time, it’s quite powerful. By making just a few small changes in the way I work over the past few days, I’ve already seen an impact and my motivation is quite high!

Next, we’ll work on my time. Stay tuned…

In the meantime, what’s most effective for you in managing your email, your schedule, your paper? How do you manage it all?

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Keeping Up With News & Events

Monday, July 28th, 2008

I returned from “vacation” over the weekend and am slowing getting back into my groove. When I’m away, I give myself permission to tune out a bit. But, in everyday life, I do like to keep up with current events, news and industry information, and sometimes it can be a challenge.

Where do you get your news and how do you stay on top of if?

I get most of my news from NPR while getting ready in the morning and driving. (“Marketplace” in the morning and evening is one of my favorites!) I subscribe to a few magazines (Working Mother and just tried Pink), but rarely have time to read them. I no longer subscribe to the daily paper — just don’t have time to read it. I get most of my industry news via email, and from web sites and blogs through RSS feeds. And, while the multitude of ways to receive information makes getting it convenient, it can be overwhelming.

How to you keep up with current events, world news and industry information? What are your favorite sources of news and your favorite ways to receive it? What are your favorite sources of news and info related to being a mom and/or business owner?

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Degrees of Participation

Friday, February 22nd, 2008

A few days ago, I had breakfast with several other Enterprising Moms. During the conversation, the topic of over committing came up. Several moms concurred that the desire to be fully involved in the lives of our children, their schools, our communities tended to throw their work/life balance completely out of whack.

What was powerful about the conversation was that the dialogue didn’t automatically shift to letting things go and saying no, as is often the case. Instead, one mom, and then another, and then another shared their experiences in scaling back. While it’s important to be involved with the parent’s committee at the elementary school for one mom, for instance, it wasn’t critical to be the committee chair. And, while it’s important for another to be involved with a local fund raiser, it she didn’t really have to spearhead the event.

Moms shared several examples of how reconnecting with their reasons for getting involved in the first place and looking these things within the context of their priorities and available time, they were able to make some shifts. These shifts enabled them to continue to be involved and participate, without having to do each and everything with the same level of intensity.

Instead, they realized that there are degrees of participation — committee chair, committee member, day-of-event support. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing

So, what can you do when your involvement is requested or you feel called to participate?

  1. Don’t commit on the spot (no matter how much pressure you may feel!). (Thanks for thinking of me to chair the Animal League’s annual fundraiser. I need some time to consider. I’ll give you a call next week.)
  2. Consider where the request fits with your values and priorities. (Animals are second only to my family.)
  3. Take a big picture look at your life and your commitments. (I already volunteer at the animal shelter twice a month with the kids.)
  4. Determine if you’ve got the time and space to commit and to what degree. (I really believe in this cause and would love to attend, but don’t have the time and energy to chair. I’ll commit to helping with logistics on the day of, instead. Or, I’m going to pass this year, but check back with me next year.)

By taking the time to assessing each potential opportunity for involvement and really assessing the role that’s required and how much time we can afford, we can say yes, or no in conscious choice.

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